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    iwishiwaspattismith:

    Made some more stickers to put around campus and Santa Fe

    (via benderqueer)

    Posted on: 17th September 2014 - 62,096 notesReblog

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    janetmock:

    Heroes — a Collaboration with artist Julio Salgado

    I was honored when undocuqueer artivist Julio Salgado emailed me about wanting to collaborate on a project about my biggest influences. He drew portraits of me embracing my heroes, and I provided words about their significance in my life. 

    These images moved me to tears, and I am grateful to Julio for creating them with me. 

    AUDRE LORDE

    Audre Lorde was the first black lesbian feminist writer I was exposed to in college, and she blew my world up. Her body of work, from her poetry to her prose, pushed me to transform silence and define myself.

    MAYA ANGELOU

    I first read “I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings” in the 10th grade, and Maya Angelou pushed me to make freedom my lifelong quest. She wrote about being a black girl who was touched without permission and protection, and it emboldened me to share my most uncomfortable truths.

    SYLVIA RIVERA

    Our elders are our greatest untapped resource, and Sylvia is my blueprint. Without the work and legacies of my foremothers (including Marsha P. Johnson and Miss Major Griffin-Gracy!) I could not and would not be able to thrive as a young trans woman writer of color.

    ZORA NEALE HURSTON

    Without Zora Neale Hurston’s “Their Eyes Were Watching God” there would be no “Redefining Realness.” Zora was a revolutionary woman and writer. She centered a black woman’s quest for identity and love, making Janie Crawford my No. 1 heroine. This book is a lifemap!

    JAMES BALDWIN

    I adore no man more than James Baldwin. I’ve devoured all his writings and find myself seeking his guidance by watching footage of his interviews. There is no better orator and thinker than Baldwin. He slays, all day, every day.

    (via crybabydaffodil)

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My anaconda don’t want none unless you got lumps, hun!

    My anaconda don’t want none unless you got lumps, hun!

    (Source: popcrimes, via pudgebug)

    Posted on: 16th September 2014 - 9,208 notesReblog

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    The gq (with a brief cameo from me) doing a cover of “True Trans Soul Rebel” by Against Me.

    tw in the song for suicide, self harm, weapon)

    Posted on: 16th September 2014 - 5 notesReblog

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    adelhaidis:

Brace Yourself…

    adelhaidis:

    Brace Yourself…

    (via krismaryloves)

    Posted on: 16th September 2014 - 24,318 notesReblog

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    femmadilemma:

This is a story about my baby, and his hat.
He got this hat a while ago.  He was so excited.  Not only did he look super cute in it, but it also helped with gendery feels.  It proclaimed his identity as a boy.  His boyhood is incredibly important to him.
He used to wear this hat all the time.  He saved up to buy it.  It made him feel powerful and handsome.  He’d look up at me from under the brim with his charming grin.  It was adorable.
But then one day, while wearing the hat, some people made fun of him at a T station.  They taunted “are you a boy or a girl?”  It was terrifying for him.  I met him at the station and he was in tears.  He took the hat off and crumpled it in his hands.
He hasn’t worn the hat since then.
It breaks my heart.  He used to be so empowered by it, and now it is a symbol of the daily harassment he faces as a non-binary trans* person.
So I am writing this to remind him of how wonderful he is.  He IS a boy, and he is beautiful.  
Please reblog to help me remind him that he deserves to feel loved and safe.  His blog is benderqueer.tumblr.com if you’d like to stop by and send a positive message <3

GREAT NEWS-
He wore the hat yesterday for the first time in a year!  ~so proud~

    femmadilemma:

    This is a story about my baby, and his hat.

    He got this hat a while ago.  He was so excited.  Not only did he look super cute in it, but it also helped with gendery feels.  It proclaimed his identity as a boy.  His boyhood is incredibly important to him.

    He used to wear this hat all the time.  He saved up to buy it.  It made him feel powerful and handsome.  He’d look up at me from under the brim with his charming grin.  It was adorable.

    But then one day, while wearing the hat, some people made fun of him at a T station.  They taunted “are you a boy or a girl?”  It was terrifying for him.  I met him at the station and he was in tears.  He took the hat off and crumpled it in his hands.

    He hasn’t worn the hat since then.

    It breaks my heart.  He used to be so empowered by it, and now it is a symbol of the daily harassment he faces as a non-binary trans* person.

    So I am writing this to remind him of how wonderful he is.  He IS a boy, and he is beautiful.  

    Please reblog to help me remind him that he deserves to feel loved and safe.  His blog is benderqueer.tumblr.com if you’d like to stop by and send a positive message <3

    GREAT NEWS-

    He wore the hat yesterday for the first time in a year!  ~so proud~

    Posted on: 16th September 2014 - 733 notesReblog

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    tubby-lil-chubby-girl:

    dustie321:

    Hell yeah, why not ; )

    Awwwww!!! So cute!!

    so here for this!

    Posted on: 16th September 2014 - 634 notesReblog

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    akelles:

    usbport:

    I respect bees more than I respect white men in positions of power

    bees make an important contribution to the survival of the human race which makes them the exact opposite of white men in positions of power

    (via plantgender)

    Posted on: 16th September 2014 - 105,009 notesReblog

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    Anonymous asked what does fucking nancy think of homophobia? (i had a pretty bad day :( )

    floccinaucinihilipilificationa:

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    (Have a big hug ♥)

    Posted on: 15th September 2014 - 14,331 notesReblog

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